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Final Resting Place
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Rutherwood Baptist Church Cemetery
142 Don Hayes Road
Boone, North Carolina, United States
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Donna Willett posted a condolence
Friday, February 3, 2023
Dear David and family, I remember John very fondly from having served him in the lighting and electrical sales fields for many years. I alway got a kick out of his stoic greeting’s, I’d say ‘Lo John and he’d follow with ‘Lo Donna. Such a kind and gracious man, he will be missed by all who knew him.
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Harold Cole posted a condolence
Monday, January 30, 2023
Frankie and family. I am saddened by Johnny's passing. It actually seems like I have lost a member of my own family. I first met Johnny and all the Bodenhamers When we both attended Rutherwood Elem. School. Later we all attended AHS grew up and all joined the military and served our time and came home and started our careers. Brother Bob has it correct about Johnny, He was a good man that will be missed. May God Bless and be with Frankie and the family
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connielbaird@gmail.com posted a condolence
Monday, January 30, 2023
It was a pleasure knowing John for the last almost 38 years. He was so kind and helped us so many times with his electrical work. When I would call about electrical work at one of the apartments he always felt they were somebody's child and he did not want anything to go wrong. He was one of the kindest people I will ever have the privilege of knowing. He never said an unkind word about or to anyone. Our prayers are with you. God just wanted him more.
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Kathy Blair posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
So sorry for your loss- we enjoyed getting to know John and Frankie last year on our trip to Key West. Prayers for all the family in the days ahead.
Mark and Kathy Blair
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Susan G. Call posted a condolence
Saturday, January 28, 2023
We are so sorry for your loss and he will surely be missed. John worked with our Dad for many years and after he passed away John still helped my Mama every time she needed an electrician and wouldn’t let her pay him. That says a lot about who John was as a Christian and a friend. God bless you and we will be praying for the family.
The Carl Greene Family
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Linda Tugman Johnson posted a condolence
Friday, January 27, 2023
John has been a wonderful neighbor and friend to my family. Many years ago he installed a satellite dish for my mother and frequently after wind storms it would lose the signal. She would call him asking him to come and get her TV back going so she could watch her soapies. He always came quickly, got her TV back going, and visited with her. She always enjoyed their visits. After we moved to Rutherwood, my husband and I enjoyed many good visits with him as our electrician and neighbor. Our condolences to Frankie, David, Tabitha, the rest of the family, and the Rutherwood community. He will be greatly missed by us all.
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Bob Bodenhamer posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2023
Growing up, brother John was the thinker; I was the stinker. John was the white sheep; I was the black sheep. John (May 15, 1941) was the protector; I (May 15, 1944) was the protected. Having an older brother in your same school is handy to protect you from bullies. Nancy (May 17, 1947), well, she was the youngest, and she was a girl, spoiled rotten. Several whippings from dad for picking on her were my reward. I do not remember John ever being whipped for picking on sis. Brother John, I will ask you that question when I join Jesus, mom, dad, sis, and you in Glory.
As many of you will know, our family has had its fair share of tragedies. Momma was a fantastic mother. Regrettably, mom suffered from a serious mental illness. She spent many months at Broughton Mental Hospital (now closed). Her story ended with her taking her life. After mom’s death, sister Nancy took her life. Nancy suffered serious mental issues as well. There was a brilliant lady with Bachelor’s and Master’s Degrees with honors from ASU. Yes, all these academic honors but a troubled young lady whose IQ (Intelligence Quotient) far exceeded her EQ (Emotional Quotient).
Following Nancy’s death, dad suffered heavily from grief. At times I worried that we might lose dad. His grief was overwhelming. I was with him during the week. I was attending ASU. It was so painful to see him torn to pieces.
Through all these tragedies, brother John was always present doing what he did best – loving his family and his friends. The family gathered at John and Frankie’s home for Christmas dinner a few weeks ago. The phone rang. John answered. A neighbor’s furnace was out, and he needed help. So, brother John typically did what he always did – he got up from the Christmas table and left to help a neighbor friend in need. That event defines my big brother, brother John. He and his mother had a special bond. This type of bond between mother and older son often appears in many families. It was a beautiful thing that my brother John had with his mom.
Grief, yes, we have had our share of it. But Brother John will never shed a tear again. There is an old Gospel song, “No Tears in Heaven” (Robert Arnold, author). However, those left on earth shall shed many tears at the loss of brother John. My eyes are tearing up now. I will never drive to Boone again and talk with brother John. He will never visit Linda and me here in Gastonia with the four of us going to Tony’s for a milkshake. I will never again pick up potatoes or cut a couple of heads of cabbage out of his well-tended garden.
For those of us who are or who will be suffering grief, God’s Word provides fantastic comfort. In Romans 14:8 (NIV), the Apostle Paul wrote:
“If we live, we live for the Lord; and if we die, we die for the Lord. So, whether we live or die, we belong to the Lord.”
And in 2 Corinthians 5:8 (NIV), the Apostle Paul encourages those of us grieving over my brother John:
“We are confident, I say, and would prefer to be away from the body and at home with the Lord.”
I find the following verses from both the Old Testament and New Testament most comforting (From the NIV):
“He heals the brokenhearted;
“and binds up their wounds.” (Psalm 147:3)
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)
“Give all your worries to Him; because He cares for you.”(1 Peter 5:7)
“He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” (Revelations 21:4)
Brother John, this is brother Bob. Thank you for always being there for little brother Bob. Thanks for overlooking little brother always wanting to tag along. Thanks for being the Rock in our family when the need called for it. Thanks for cooking pan after pan of cornbread when mom was in the hospital. Cornbread and milk, I was foundered on cornbread and milk. When Linda and I were first married, I told her not to cook any cornbread for me. I’m guessing, but I doubt if Linda has just cooked more than ten pans of cornbread for us in our 58 years of marriage. However, you got the job done. You kept dad, Nancy, and I fed when mom was in the hospital.
Thank you, brother. I am missing you dearly. Those tears have come back. We all miss you dearly.
Brother Bob
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Willadean and Junior Johnson posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2023
So sorry for the loss of John. He was a very good co worker in Lenoir for BellSouth. John was alot of pleasure to work with.
May God bless and comfort the family...
Willdean Johnson and husband Junior
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Carolyn Church posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2023
My heart goes out to Frankie and all the family. John was indeed a special man with compassion for everyone. I will always remember how much he did work for my mother anytime she would call him. Not only did he take time to come help her, he didn't want any pay for what he did! He was certainly helping take care of a widow woman as the scripture says to do. Although I have too many other good memories to mention, I want to say I'm thankful for all of them! John was an example of a true Christian man who touched many lives!
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Karen Bodenhamer Lewis posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2023
I'll never forget all my boy cousins . When I was a young girl I was in a Christmas play with all of them plus a lot of other teenagers in our church. Johnny, Bobby and Tommy Bodenhamer. I sure did look up to all of them. They were cool as we used to say.
Johnny was a groomsmen in our wedding and Bobby officiated. It was special to have them there to celebrate with us. I will always hold a special place in my heart for Johnny. He will be so missed in our family.
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Frank Peele lit a candle
Thursday, January 26, 2023
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From all of us at Action Cycle Sports, we express our deepest sympathy & condolences to the Bodenhamer family. Over the years, we have developed great admiration and respect for your sincerity, friendship, and hard work, just to name a few attributes. Thank you for your service, John.
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Grant & Pam Mastin posted a condolence
Thursday, January 26, 2023
John did a lot of small electrical jobs for us and our real estate clients over the years! He will be greatly missed by all! So sorry for your loss and condolences to Frankie and all of the rest of the family members!
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Walter & Pam Johnson lit a candle
Thursday, January 26, 2023
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Sending our love and prayers to the Bodenhamer family.
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Chris Bodenhamer lit a candle
Thursday, January 26, 2023
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Deepest condolences to the family and everyone that Johnnie touched. I always loved visiting them on our yearly trips to Boone. Johnnie’s voice I’ll always remember and how loving the entire family was and all the wonderful stories. Prayers and love during this challenging season.
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Randy Bodenhamer lit a candle
Thursday, January 26, 2023
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I was saddened to hear of Johnny’s passing, but know his new home is grander than we can fathom, for his faith was so strong. It is a time to mourn, and adjust to his absence, but also a time to remember and celebrate a long and blessed life. My thoughts and prayers go out to Frankie and the family, and know he is not truly gone, only been called to serve God in a different way.
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Johnny Greer posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
I remember John and Frankie hand in hand between classes at Appalachian High and when I got on with Southern Bell John was there demonstrating his Christianity and knowledge of everything. Beyond a doubt they will join hands again in the Garden.
May God comfort!
Johnny and Doris Greer
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Nancy Franklin Perryman posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
The whole Franklin family send our most heartfelt sympathy to Johnny's whole family! Your family has always had a special place in our hearts! We love you all so much! Mason and Rita, Nancy and Russ, Jennifer and Tim, and Doug and Deanna
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Donna Henson Johnson Hicks lit a candle
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
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Frankie, I am so sorry about the loss of your husband. He was a good man, worked hard, and touched many lives. He had a good wife. You were my classmate and was always so nice. I remember your son David when he worked some on our house. Please know I care and although we never see each other, I have fond memories and I will always remember you and your husband. Thinking of you with love and prayers. My condolence, Glenn and Donna Henson-Johnson HIcks.
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Nina Graybeal lit a candle
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
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I'm so sorry to hear about John, he was a great man and May God Wrap his loving arms around each of you during this time of sorrow. My prayers are with you all.
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Wednesday, January 25, 2023
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Paul Barlow posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 25, 2023
Very saddened to hear of John's passing. John was always pleasant and managed to crack me up quite often. Keeping the entire family in our thoughts and prayers.
Austin & Barnes
Funeral Home and Crematory
194 Queen Street
Boone, North Carolina
28607
Phone: (828) 264-8888
Fax: (828) 264-8889
