Wednesday, March 18, 2020
I was scanning the obits and came across Joe's. I did not know Joe or ever met him but his obituary just touched me. I lost a brother at a young age, where substance abuse contributed. My brother and I were not close as I distanced myself from the pain he caused (unknowingly due to his state of mind, at times) his young son and his parents. Many times he never realized how he hurt us and would have hated to know how badly he did. We tried everything but Russ had to be strong enough to want to help himself first. He always meant well but the demons just took over.
It sounds like Joe was so talented, his death will truly be a loss to all who knew and loved him.
Please do not be too hard on yourselves. When we are protecting ourselves from being hurt, it always feels like we could have done more for our loved one. I'm sure you did all that you could. It will take a long time to heal from your loss and the circumstances that played a part.
Look to the heavens and let Joe see your smiles, maybe give him a wink. He is now well and guarding all of you, I'm sure.
Bless you all.
